How to Find the Perfect Birthday Gift for a Child (That Parents Will Love Too!)

As three moms ourselves and the owners of Après NJ, a kids' clothing and accessory boutique in the heart of Bernardsville, NJ, we know how special—and sometimes tricky—it can be to find just the right birthday gift for a child. Whether it’s your own little one, a classmate, a niece or nephew, or your best friend’s child, you want something that feels thoughtful, fun, and age-appropriate.

After years of curating gifts for kids of all ages, we’ve discovered a few go-to ideas and strategies that take the stress out of birthday shopping—so you can spend less time worrying and more time celebrating!

1. Think Beyond Toys

Yes, toys are fun—but so are creative, wearable, or functional gifts that feel a little different. We carry beautifully made clothing and accessories that kids actually get excited about (hello, glitter bags and cozy sets!), and parents appreciate gifts that are both stylish and practical.

Some of our favorite non-toy gifts:

  • Trendy graphic tees or dresses from brands like Rylee + Cru and Tea Collection

  • Playful sunglasses or needlepoint hats

  • A cute crossbody bag or mini bag

  • Cozy pajamas with fun prints

2. Make It Personal

Personalized gifts feel extra special. Whether it’s a monogrammed accessory or a “just their style” pick, choosing something that reflects the child’s personality shows thought and care.

We love:

  • Initial necklaces or hair clips

  • Books tailored to their interests

  • DIY craft kits for creative kids

3. Age-Appropriate is Everything

A gift that’s just right for their age can mean the difference between a quick glance and a full-on squeal of excitement. At Après NJ, we help shoppers match gifts to the child’s age and stage—from baby to tween.

Not sure what to get? We’re happy to guide you, or you can shop our selection of the perfect items online or in-store.

4. Need it Shipped? No Problem!

Not local to NJ? We ship nationwide! Whether you're shopping last-minute or planning ahead, we’ll make sure your gift arrives on time for the big event.

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